Dear Miss Manners: I was in my friend’s wedding a year ago, and now her anniversary is coming up. However, in the last six months, it does not seem like the marriage is going well, and I’m honestly not sure if the couple is still together.
This leads me to wonder whether I should even mention her anniversary on the day. I think texting “Happy anniversary!” is out of the question, and even posting something like, “Ah! A year ago, we were all together, celebrating you!” feels like it would just make my friend feel bad that her marriage did not go the way she expected. But then, it also seems rude to not say anything!
