Astrologer and Cut columnist Claire Comstock-Gay reads the stars as Madame Clairevoyant.
Stevie Nicks, a Gemini.
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Positive energy flows between the sun and Pluto — in air signs Gemini and Aquarius, respectively — today, strengthening your resolve and giving you a new sense of control over your own destiny. It’s not about trying to manage every tiny detail, but about feeling that you’ll be able to deal with whatever comes your way without losing your integrity or sense of self. You can trust that even in suboptimal conditions, you’re wise and courageous enough to make the right choices and to build a life that works for you.
As much as you generally value authenticity, there are still times when it feels like you need to keep your true thoughts hidden. You worry your friends would be put off by your intensity if they knew what really went on in your head, so you try to put a gentler or more positive spin on things. Today, though, don’t feel pressured to perform in any particular way. Chances are, others have emotions every bit as strong as yours — and by being honest about how you’re feeling, you’ll create space for them to to do the same.
Sometimes, it feels like your stubbornness only causes you problems. Everyone seems to want you to agree with whatever they say; they can’t tolerate that you’re able to think for yourself and willing to stand your ground. But today, the people around you might finally start to appreciate you; they’ll be glad to talk to someone with a distinct perspective, someone who won’t just mindlessly agree with them. As long as you’re willing to genuinely listen to what they have to say, they’ll listen to you, too.
It can sometimes be difficult to convince people that you’re really serious about following through on a new plan. If they imagine that it won’t hold your interest for long, and that you’ll be on to something else soon enough, then it’ll be hard to get them excited. So today, don’t worry so much about getting everyone around you on board with your ideas. While their support would be nice, it’s not absolutely necessary — you’re strong enough to move forward independently, and once others see how committed you are, they might finally get on board.
Today, you might receive support from unexpected places. People you didn’t know were rooting for you could step in to provide meaningful assistance; even people you thought disliked you might prove to be unexpectedly helpful and kind. This still doesn’t mean that everyone in the world is on your side, of course, just don’t assume right off the bat that everyone is an antagonist, either. Plenty of people think well of you and want to help, so don’t shut them out.
The more you expect of the people in your life, the more likely they are to let you down. This doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with having high standards — if anything, it’s good to be clear about what you need and deserve — but still, others are only human, and they’ll inevitably fall short sometimes. It’s unreasonable to expect that no one you care about will ever hurt or disappoint you. Today, your challenge is to figure out how to move forward when it happens.
Today, you might suddenly realize that certain things in your life just aren’t working for you anymore. Maybe you’ve outgrown old habits or relationships; maybe the goals that used to inspire you now seem a bit lackluster. The key is to be honest about what you need, and what’s no longer making you happy. Sometimes, it’s scary to make a change, but today, it doesn’t need to be. Once you make the decision to start doing things differently, it’ll be surprisingly invigorating, and you’ll be excited to keep going.
While some people enjoy a bit of vigorous back-and-forth, you don’t often enjoy arguing, even when it’s all in good fun. You feel better when conversations are peaceful and collaborative, not combative. Today, though, the absence of conflict won’t feel like enough for you to be satisfied with your relationships — you need something more now, some passion and heat. The best way to get it is to speak honestly, even if you suspect that the people around you will disagree. By making room for disagreement, you’ll make room for authentic connection, too.
Your life is full of people who care deeply about you, but sometimes it’s difficult to let yourself really lean on anyone. In the abstract, you trust that your friends are only too happy to support you, but when you actually need them, you’re afraid that they won’t come through for you, or that they’ll begrudge you. Today, though, it’s a good time to be brave enough to make yourself vulnerable. It can feel risky to ask for help, but chances are, your faith in the people around you will be rewarded.
The best thing you can do, today, is be curious about the people around you. Instead of assuming you know what they’re thinking, ask. Most people love to talk about themselves and their ideas, but rarely encounter anyone who genuinely cares what they have to say. Even those who seem a bit dull or predictable on the surface will probably have fascinating stories to tell you today, if you just ask good questions and give them time to talk. Listening closely will improve your relationships, and it’ll make your own life more interesting, too.
Sometimes, it’s necessary to make difficult, pragmatic decisions — even when they go against what you believe is right. You understand that you live in an imperfect world, and that you can’t always do exactly what you want. Today, though, it’s a good time to be a bit of a stickler for what you believe in. Making decisions based on your values won’t always get you the “best” results, or lead directly to the kind of success you hope for, but it’ll allow you to feel good about yourself and to sleep soundly at night, and right now, that’ll be worth it.
You’re not the sort of person to coast through life on self-confidence alone. If anything, you’re likely to be a bit too hard on yourself; it’s not that you don’t recognize your own strengths, it’s just that your weaknesses tend to get all your attention. But today isn’t the time for obsessing over your shortcomings, real or perceived. Right now, err on the side of overconfidence: You’re better off taking big swings, even if they don’t all work out, than missing out on opportunities because you let your self-doubt run the show.
Other people sometimes underestimate your strength — particularly in your quieter, more contemplative moods. They might imagine that if you’re not leaping into action, it must be because you’re afraid, that you’d be louder and more brazen if you had more courage. None of this is true, of course — taking a more thoughtful approach tends to come from wisdom, not fear. Today, the key is not to worry about whether anyone else is misjudging you. As long as you know who you are and what you’re made of, that’s what counts.
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