In the years since, both have turned to Catholicism, which they say has helped them come to terms with the loss of Rachel.
Despite the strain and the difficulties they faced, they say their relationship as father and son has endured and, over time, found a way forward.
“We always had love, and we always had hope as a way through, and over time we found faith as well,” said André.
“It’s really important that people who do find themselves in difficult positions know there is a way through.”
He said Rachel’s presence was still felt in their daily lives.
“When I look at Alex I see his mother. She was all heart, she had an incredible head and shoulders as well, and I see those qualities in him so it’s an absolute blessing to have him.”
